Wow! Welcome, welcome, welcome. I'm sorry that you guys have all had to go through such major changes to be a triad. I'm thrilled that you are making it work no matter what. "...but love is conquering those each day." I love that line and shows what being Poly is all about. I wish you guys all the best and look forward to hearing more of your story.
Live life to the fullest 'cause you never know if you're gonna wake up tomorrow!