Sometimes it makes me feel like a difficult person when rory expresses that she has a hard time asking for the things she needs. Even though I know it's not about me. I have told her that it's ok if we spend less time together / don't meet when she doesn't have the energy. But still she feels like it's difficult to express this. I don't know what to do to convince her that I won't be upset if that happens. When she tells me that it's hard to ask for spending less time together and at the same time she's making plans to see me, it makes me wonder what is the thing she actually wants and is she making plans with me just to make me happy. Nycindie's comment was interesting and I'm looking forward to hearing what rory has to say about that. Maybe there is something she's avoiding doing with me? I'm a big girl, I can handle it if that's the case.
Me: bi female in my 30's
Live-in partners: Hank and rory
Also dating: Yvonne and Zooey
Last edited by Mya; 11-05-2012 at 05:06 PM.