Sorry... I was still editing.
We have that ability to talk openly about the swinging stuff, but when I went to my wife about the poly, it was totally different. It really caught me off guard how difficult it was for her to even talk about it.
Well, the next question is -- would you feel fulfilled having poly expression with Sarah even if you do not have a poly partner?
Would that be doable for you both?
Could she Open that far to meet you in middle ground?
Could you Close that far to meet her in middle ground?