Just curious... how do you envision other women "joining your family" since you live in Utah and Melissa is in Ohio? I am not big on LDRs, so I am wondering where/how would that work? How often do you get together and see Melissa in person? Or are you hoping to meet someone to "join your family" after you both move to LA? I'm not interested for myself, but I think it would be good for any other possible candidates to get a feel for what you're looking to have happen.
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