Originally Posted by tjeknagmen
I suppose I do feel like "I'm not good enough".
I guess I feel like I'm not good enough for her, like she's willing to damage what we have for a passing romance and I can't wrap my head around it.
I don't know if this will be helpful, but when you are looking for people to date (even if you're not having success at the moment) was there a part of you thinking "I'm doing this because she's not good enough for me"? If not, just try to keep in perspective that she isn't thinking that about you either. I'm not saying she's being the kindest or best partner right now, but don't think it's about you being adequate or enough.