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Old 11-02-2012, 10:12 PM
MeeraReed MeeraReed is offline
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If the girlfriend is married, her husband might be her primary partner. She and the guy you like might have a relationship where they do not consider each other to be "primaries." The guy might, in fact, be looking for a primary partner of his own.

You can't know without asking him and talking to him about it, of course.

You can also ask him how he would label/describe his relationship with her, since he does not seem to use the label "girlfriend."

I can relate to that--I am involved with someone, and we do not feel the labels "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" describe our relationship. We are not each other's "primary." (He's looking for a primary partner / "girlfriend", and I don't want a primary partner).

But don't assume that my situation describes your guy's...just ask him about it!
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