There are a lot of polygroups in Washington. I HIGHLY advise getting involved in them.
I don't live in Washington, but if you PM Redpepper, I believe she has a link for the groups and activities she could send you.
It's MUCH EASIER to meet people, make friends and have the potential for real love in lasting relationships if you meet them face to face and get to know them in real life.
(I would also ask Redpepper, who is a moderator, if she could move your thread to a more appropriate section as this one isn't really one that will get much attention)