Originally Posted by crisare
Hah. Interesting. Well, there's physical age and emotional age ...
I'm thinking he might have some maturing to do. Then again, I know 50 year old men who have the emotional maturity of a 16 year old ... so it takes all kinds.
I've met a lot of adultolescents. When I worked as a bouncer, most of the folks whom I had to handle professionally qualified as such. That whole 40-going-on-17 dynamic in action!
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.