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Old 11-02-2012, 12:21 PM
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I suppose I do feel like "I'm not good enough".

A little more background:
She's had a few "close friendships" with men in the past when non-monogamy wasn't even up for discussion. Nothing ever became sexual, but these were tough to deal with. So I've felt hurt by these incidents. I'm sure that is part of my feeling insecure about this now.

I brought up the idea of non-monogamy in the context of swinging. Something I wanted to try. We did very little of that and then it morphed into "open marriage" which last year she decided that she's poly. This isn't something I've ever been ok about. I have tried to find some kind of relationship for me to get my mind of off hers but have had zero success so far.

I guess I feel like I'm not good enough for her, like she's willing to damage what we have for a passing romance and I can't wrap my head around it.
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