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Old 11-01-2012, 04:48 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I truly enjoyed it. But it still left me confused afterwards. We're we just being friends with benefits, or something more?
Why was this not talked about before sharing sex?

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What am I supposed to do? I love my friend, and it hurts to know that he doesn't feel the same way about me. I am so confused. How am I supposed to cope with it? Is there a way that I can just see him as a friend and nothing more now?
Sigh.

However it works out with this friend, if you go on to date other people, really date them for a bit first to answer those questions. Don't rush on to sharing sex if it causes you this kind of confusion.
  • "Does he feel about me in the same way romantically?"
  • "How are we going to be when this breaks up? Still friends and good ex-lovers? Or weird?" Not if it breaks up. WHEN. All relationships come with a clock attached. Even "til death do us part" is an ending.

I am sorry you are hurting.

Galagirl
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