I truly enjoyed it. But it still left me confused afterwards. We're we just being friends with benefits, or something more?
Why was this not talked about before sharing sex?
What am I supposed to do? I love my friend, and it hurts to know that he doesn't feel the same way about me. I am so confused. How am I supposed to cope with it? Is there a way that I can just see him as a friend and nothing more now?
However it works out with this friend, if you go on to date other people, really date them for a bit first
to answer those questions. Don't rush on to sharing sex if it causes you this kind of confusion.
- "Does he feel about me in the same way romantically?"
- "How are we going to be when this breaks up? Still friends and good ex-lovers? Or weird?" Not if it breaks up. WHEN. All relationships come with a clock attached. Even "til death do us part" is an ending.
I am sorry you are hurting.