I've been in a situation
where there were issues around my partner's behavior with her metamour that very much affected their relationship. I think it depends on what the issues are. GalaGirl is spot on, kudos to you for stepping back, auto-pilot style! I'm sure that is extremely helpful for them, so yeah, you have a right to (a proper thank you/acknowledgement and) a check-in after a certain amount of time! Of course you do. Can you elaborate on the nature of the conflict at all?
under-30 cis femme- and queer-identified female. in a primary relationship with G, genderqueer female, with separate apartments. I also have a FWB, N, that I see every few months. K is a member of a 2012 triad that has since ended.