well, I did my best and gave loop all the space she wanted. her job deadline came and went. she kept putting off the date. then finally she set it and changed her mind the morning of the date - I showed up expecting a reunion and she said "we need to talk".
stine had hard feelings about loop's and my relationships. loop decided she didn't have the capacity to deal with stine's feelings, so she ended our relationship. 2.5yrs... sigh. I feel like a fool.