I don't remember feeling guilty when I was the hinge and BF1 and BF2 were in the picture. Neither was ever promised "exclusive."
I worried more about time management and emotional management and keeping the TMI wall where we agreed to keep it for the comfort of all players.
I also worried about jealously management but surprisingly -- both dealt with it realistically and never made a THING about it.
Whatever you feel is ok -- it's emotional internal weather. Rain is rain. Sun is sun. You have been open and honest with your BF, so it isn't being "bad" in the sense that you are lying to him. Or going behind his back. Be honest with the potential when you ask them for a date and explain you have another guy you are also dating. You aren't promising exclusive. Is he up for it or not? A date?
Then see what he says.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 11-01-2012 at 03:18 AM.