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Old 10-31-2012, 05:01 PM
Stevenjaguar Stevenjaguar is offline
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I'd say you're fortunate to have an understanding boyfriend who has your interests at heart. Go ahead and make your move but be sure your new guy understands he's a secondary and keep everyone in the information loop. It's rewarding and fulfilling to bask in the glow of the love of two people but be aware that each of the others may wrestle with feelings of jealousy that they don't really want to have. If things look like they're not going the way you want, communicate, communicate, communicate, and don't be shy about saying what you want. Listen, reassure and get reassurance yourself.
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