Originally Posted by YGirl
I don't know your boyfriend, but I am about to "judge" him here. Some of you might want to close your eyes, cover your ears and chant "la-la-la-la-la" for a few seconds here: (highlight the blank space below to see the text)
OK, you can all open your eyes and ears and stop "la-la-la-ing" now.
OK, you can all open your eyes and ears and stop "la-la-la-ing" now.[/QUOTE]
Judgement is not the evil word people make it out to be. It is a required function of establishing what is deemed acceptable and not acceptable within any community. Some behaviour is black, some is white, and much is grey. (Yes...I said grey)
I think those who resist the word have already secretly judged themselves, found something they didn't like and don't want others pointing it out to them.
I judge myself constantly and fully expect others do as well.