I an always upfront and honest about my lifestyle. I don't 'look for' new partners ever. I just go about life meeting people, being friendly and making friends. I find that many people are comforted by seeing over time that I treat my partners with love, respect and public acknowledgement of their importance in my life-even thise who are questioning of poly when we meet, tend to come around when seeing how we interact.
Also, I am honest and they have good cause to believe that what they are seeing isn't designed just to get something from them because it doesn't change. I am just me regardless of where I am or who I am with.
"Love As Thou Wilt"