I have never been good at closets. I'm too much like a jack in the box.
I have to admit that for all the people who have exited my life over my sexual preference (came out at 18 when I got my first girlfriend) or my telationship dynamic ( came out Sept 25, 2009 just after realizing what poly was and that it fit me) -
None are missed and I am thrillingly glad to have 'cleaned out the closet' of judgmental asses.
Boyfriend and husband are out at work and friends and family as well.
When I returned to college I was nervous about how it could effect grades. But-stuck to my guns and dropped the bomb in intros. Its been an amazingly liberating feeling to be flat out honest.
"Love As Thou Wilt"