Good to see you, Frank Lee! I've been thinking of you lately, wondering how you've been.
Me, I deal by having younger men for boyfriends.
Do you have a local poly meet up? If yes, have you been to it? It's interesting, I don't think I'd go there looking for a date, or a mate; but I really enjoy it and it's a great place for friends. And I prefer dates who are introduced by people I know. The only long relationship I've had that was not a person introduced, was FBF, and I met him at a mensa function.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)