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Old 10-27-2012, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by kboz2112 View Post
Thank you for your thoughtful response. Logically, everything you say makes sense. But on an emotional level, it is going to be a huge change in thinking for me. I hope I am up to the challenge of changing my feelings about this.
Virtually nothing I say will make sense. Our mindsets are fundamentally different and generally speaking incompatible.

And to be honest, the thought of exploring sexually is intriguing to me. Maybe I will get to a place where I can expand my boundaries in the future. But I've got to get comfortable with the whole concept first, and I think I also need to learn to be more secure with myself and within our marriage before any of that is remotely possible.
That insight is a good indication you're probably well equipped to take steps down the path.
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