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Old 10-27-2012, 08:12 AM
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Id want to know a lot about if they planned on building individual relationships with you too, or to just keep you at arms length, where they are the couple and you come second. Some people are OK with A or B, some aren't so comfortable with A or B. Main problem seems to be a third parties desires and wants are not taken into consideration as much as the other two people who are already a couple, so think about what is important to you and be clear if you want to have just as much say as they do in the agreements and way it progresses, and if they say one thing but do another...well, cut and run sooner than later imo.
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