Originally Posted by GalaGirl
That is HIS choice to be with you, HIS feelings to own. Let him own his emotional baggage. Everyone holds their own bag.
HE actually told me this today. He said exactly this, that it was his choice to be with me and he knew how the social circle we share would take it (not so warmly) from the start, and decided it was worth it. And that I should just relax.
I do tend to over-protect and over-analyze. :/