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Old 10-26-2012, 05:22 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by MoonElf View Post
When it reached my ears, "Peaches was an abusive boyfriend and I felt so opressend and sad that I let CC take advantage of the situation". People came to confront Peaches about how he MUST be treating me for me to do something like that. He said he could barely do something other than laugh.
I was bafled on how creative people could be. No one even bothered to ask me or CC what was going on.
He should laugh at them, loudly and openly.

And the response I recommend is: "Sez you."

"You've never been truly in love."
Sez you.

You've not found "the One."
Sez you.

If they sputter on, then something along the lines of "It's OK, I don't really expect anything better from people who have no clue." That's always shut down the stupidity for me.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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