Thank you for the welcome. And yes, I'm taking things slow for now; I'm just reading around a bit trying to figure out what would work best for me.
Right now I'm leaning towards being a secondary, with the possibility of finding my own primary someday. It's mostly an issue of time, and gaining experience with polyamory. I know nycindie and AnnabelMore post a lot on their experiences with secondary relationships, so I usually follow them around on the forums. They tend to answer a lot of the questions I have without my having to ask.
But I'll be sure to raise any concerns I may have in the future.
Oh, and I guess I should say a little about myself.
I'm a 26 year old male in New York City. I work as an engineer in the construction industry and...uh...my favorite color is green?
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