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Old 10-25-2012, 03:26 PM
ahpook33 ahpook33 is offline
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Of course the only rules that count are the ones that work for you & your loved ones in your relationships.

That said, speaking as someone who has been involved in poly relationships, and power-exchange bdsm relationships for over a decade, I can say for sure (for myself) that healthy poly has to involve people consensually deciding what is right for themselves.

I have seen power-exchange based poly relationships go boom because some master/mistress ordered their slave/property to do something that was against that person's poly or mono nature, whether it was have no other relationships, or to have a relationship that they didn't really want.

Feelings cannot be dominated. It's like trying to whip the stormy seas into submission with a cat-o-nine tails.
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