Thanks for your advice. I understand what you are saying. There is sort of a quasi-escape "clause." We are meeting in a big city and then going elsewhere after a few days. She's mentioned that I don't have to join her for the second part if I don't want to and I can go elsewhere by myself or stay behind. So there is that.
I guess I never thought about this aspect because in a way, I feel this might be the only time we might meet. Sure we have plans for more but you never know. We both talked about what if we meet and there is nothing...but I guess we went all in.