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Old 10-24-2012, 10:55 PM
CattivaGattina CattivaGattina is offline
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This sucks but it sounds like she has already checked out of her relationship with you and is just using "I'm poly" as an excuse not to woman up and end the relationship.

You need to figure out what you want/need, tell her what they are, and if she isn't willing to work on that then let it go.

If you don't want a polyamorous relationship and she's telling you that if you want to be with her than you have to be okay with her not only being in another relationship but also be okay with her not caring about what you want/need then you need to look at whether or not being in a relationship with her is the healthiest thing.
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