What did you do to piss off her mother ?
What the age of all these players?
Why don't you have the paperwork ? just get it....hand it directly to the mother. Did you do something to break the trust ?
How do you know the guy didn't fork over clean paperwork?
Whats her dad say?....maybe he could vouch for you (10yr relationship) and intercede asking for paperwork from the FNG....a stall tactic.
What kind of scene were they planning ?