This is the first time me and my boyfriend have met someone that we wanted to bring into our relationship. We both known him the same amount of time and planned on getting to know him even more before we asked him to join our relationship. From what I noticed from other couples it usually starts off as a sexual relationship then grows or ends quickly after that. I don't want it to start off sexual at all, even though I know it could. And I also noticed when it's one on one the relationship stops becoming equal.
Actually I just realized that this is something that I can't really plan out, and what ever happens just happens. I think I just wanted to control the situation so everything would work out the way I wanted. But I realize this isnt something that I can control.
I'll keep you guys updated on how things are going.