Originally Posted by glowinthedarkstars
(although I read online that polys hate newbs who read everything they can get thier hands on....
I don't know where this comes from. I "hate" it when people don't read what's out there...not that you have to read everything there is. I am constantly encouraging people to read around on this site and am trying to help make it easier for new members to find the information that would be helpful to them. It is refreshing to see someone such as yourself being proactive about learning everything they can before attempting to put it into practice.