My kids outed us. The kids were saying something about my husbands gf and she asked who that was. They told her it was daddy's gf that mommy knew about. My family took it way better than his gf parents did. Her mom told her she was going to break up our family and hurt the kids.
We are now all living apart and I have got a lawyer and getting divorce papers drawn up. The kids are constantly worried one of us will be mad if they decide to stay with the other parent.