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Old 10-22-2012, 10:40 PM
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That was exactly what I was saying. We (GG & I) are totally different. If I were to push him into participating in the myriad things I am working on learning about (like poly) that would be FUCKED UP-and it would be pushing him so far out of his comfort zone it would likely destroy a 20 year positive relationship. Because it's just NOT him.

But-being so different, doesn't mean we can't be together, it means respecting each others freedom to "grow and learn" if and when we individually are up to it. Which is NOT the same at all.
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