Hey guys, I just want to say that I'm finding all of your replies extremely helpful! Thank you so much for posting
It really helps to know that there are other people out there who have been through similar situations where it has worked out fine, and you've given me some really great insights about what to expect. I think I feel confident enough to continue pursuing it, I will keep in mind the possibility that I could develop feelings for the other guy (or that he could develop feelings for me) and I'll talk to my boyfriend about it.
Do you guys have any suggestions/thoughts on what to do if the other guy and I end up liking each other? (I doubt that I would fall in love with him or choose him over my boyfriend, but I could see myself becoming friends with him and wanting to hang out with him as friends)