I'd like to experiment with a polyamorous lovestyle. Currently I am in love with an amazing woman (her name is V), we always try to practice open and honest communication and we do it well. We met this June and have been inseparable since. I have voiced my desire to play and experiment with other women sexually and so far she seems to be on board with the idea though admittedly neither of us have any clue how to go about exploring and working through the dynamics.
But recently I met someone who may be at least a potential friend (her name is J) n' so I've been chattin' her up and yesterday all three of us hung out for a little bit and everybody seemed cool.
I really want to take this slow. But i'm wondering how to proceed as the weeks go by. Should I talk honestly to just J alone about the idea to get a temp reading on her interests? or should we just break it all out at once (doesn't seem very slow to me)