Hi everyone, Im here to better understand this lifestyle. I have a fiance, who knows alot about the lifestyle and its something he's always wanted to do. I want to do it with him. We have enough trust in eachother that we can make it work. Hes alot more sexually active then I am and we dont have sex alot. I feel bad because is feel like he's being deprived.I think if he had a girlfriend who has a little more of a sex drive, things will get better. We love each other, theres no dought about it. We have already been through so much together. Me, on the other had, would also like a boyfriend, because my fiance is never home because he works nights and sleeps all day and we really never see eachother. I have a long time friend that I have had a thing for, for a awhile. I was wondering if my soon to be hubby, can have a girlfriend and I can have a boyfriend if we both agree to it?? My fiance has needs that needs to be met, that I dont want to do, and I have needs I want that he doesnt want to do either. Help! please help me out please.