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Old 10-22-2012, 06:15 PM
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I took issue with the question near the end, something like: "Which partner do you love the most?" Egad, I think that is a horrible question. While I see my love for others as having different shades and hues, I don't quantify it. If I feel love for more than one person I am involved with, I couldn't say I love one more than the other (though there may be more affection or different levels of closeness between me and different people).
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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