I openly want to talk. I don't think we will agree on maturity - but I would like to hear your conclusions on HIV and how they differ from mine. Maybe I could learn something.
Also, and this is secondary, if you have been through sexual trama, how do you not feel uncomfortable with certain issues. I can't change who I am! If sex parities make me uncomfortable and my husband knows that so it isn't worth it to him , why is that wrong?