nycindie, you were right!!
Today, I was talking with Marty, and told him I was dating a couple other men. Now he suddenly wants to get together again. You called that one!!
Had a great second date with Z today. He's down with the lover-friends thing and seeing other people and taking whatever we may or may not build together very slowly.
Next week, I have possible dates with Z and G, pending childcare and other such things. I have a playdate set up to take my kids over to see Marty, his wife, and their son next weekend. It should be a full week with lots of socializing, some romantic, some not. I'm looking forward to it.
"This, too, is sacred."
I am my own primary.