I relate to this so strongly.
What I would say is get on OKcupid and be really upfront on your profile that you don't just want to have sex, but also form a friendship. Some people are afraid of letting that space open up, of letting themselves be vulnerable through a friendship, but you'll find couples that aren't afraid of that, too.
Be patient & intentional with your use of OKC and it will almost certainly turn out well.
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