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Old 10-21-2012, 03:38 AM
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I'm really sorry she didn't just say "Sorry, I realize poly wont work for me" I'd guess that your lighthearted comment about "lets get to know each other before we start planning a marriage" may have made her panic and think that she'd never be important because you already are married so assumed it would be too risky for her heart or that she'd just be a casual fling (and didn't understand that wasn't necessarily the case) I hope it wasn't more than that, but whatever it was it's too bad she didn't leave the door open to conversation about things instead of being rude.

Don't let this be too much of a setback though, don't be afraid to ask people out in the future just because of this.
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