One more thought,
At the point where you make an agreement to a request by your partner:
it becomes YOUR choice.
Therefore, if you state it to someone else (like another partner) as being a limitation that your partner has made-
you are LYING.
Your partner can't force you to agree to their requests. EVEN IF YOU AGREE UNHAPPILY-you have agreed and now it is YOUR limitation to claim ownership over.
"Love As Thou Wilt"