Originally Posted by Phy
Checking in is necessary from time to time. But I am glad that We are doing good
So happy your living-together Vee is going well. Ours is chugging along just great. One new development is that they have acquired a new hobby together that gets them out of the house for a day or two at a time, leaving me with some much needed home-alone-time to putter around and recharge.
I find that I am hesitant to "check in" when things are going well - like I don't want to "rock the boat"...so I have to remind myself to do it. Generally, I have always gotten the "all good here" thumbs up - occasionally they will have some minor point or suggestion to discuss. We generally leave it with a reminder that its best to just speak up right away if something is off - which we have all gotten pretty good at.