Originally Posted by begonias
I wonder if somebody really loved me why would they want me to do something that i am in no way ok with?
When I was growing up people used to always tell me to try it, before I said I didn't like it. Then I could what is was that I didn't like. Things often turn out quite differently for us in real life than they do in our head.
You have this idea of what you think your partner desires, but have you really stopped to listen to what he was saying or did you just develop different scenarios in your head and let your imagination run wild.