She had mentioned it the day befor but i never put in my 2 cents. I wonder if she knows just how desperate the situation was and was just trying to help. I can afford it...i just feel like i was left out totally in the decision. I have said thank u to her...and i have also told my husband how i felt.
He told me that we have built a wonderful life together and wont give it up for anything. I KNOW this is true.
I just brought the "feelings" convo up to her. Am waiting to hear back. Idk...i just think that i would only take out a loan for someone i loved heart and soul.