Well thank you everybody. I truly needed some support and you wonderful folks provided. GalaGirl, you really hit the nail on the head for me. By the time Leaf came home from school I was simply at peace.
We are done. I asked him to just out with it and he did. He chose her - which I already knew really. I haven't felt so relieved ever before.
Now to start dividing up our lives.
I may still be back with more questions. He broke up with me, yes. And now he has to start trying to be monogamous again although he still loves two people. Leaf seems a little more scared than I am right now.
Thank you so much. I think I will sleep well tonight for the first time in weeks. I am happy. I am ready. Life goes on.