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Old 10-19-2012, 06:10 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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I think my interpretation is a slightly more negative version of GalaGirl's: when looking for a long term relationship, better to miss an opportunity with someone who you COULD have had a great relationship with than put a ton of time and energy into something that ultimately can't work and blows up in your face. The false negatives would ultimately be better for your emotional health than the false positives.

But maybe that's just my particular mood this week.
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack
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