He does have some insecurities and fears...which we do talk about. It is hard because hes not used to or comfortable with talking about his feelings. One of his only other fears is that because of all this i will end up resenting him and want a divorce. He wonders how long one can put up with their spouse having a "friend" when they have nothing but their spouse.
She on the other hand is very confident and has voiced no concerns really...other than what my feelings on it are. Sometimes i get really irrational and think its all a conspiracy for them to make me feel better so they can continue to have their fun guilt free. Lol. I never said i was sane...