That said, maybe try to keep some emotional distance at first, to keep from complicating things in these early stages if possible.
*sigh* And aside from the complication, it's worth noting that unrequited love for a metamour really sucks... in that it's extra difficult to get over because it's not like you can just entirely cut that person out from your life without putting them and your other partner in to a very unfair position. Not saying you shouldn't go for it down the line is all involved are amenable... just be careful!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
Last edited by AnnabelMore; 10-18-2012 at 09:17 PM.