TGIG said it perfectly. No expectations, no end goals, no ideal structures, just living and loving day by day, adjusting to the needs of all involved as they reveal themselves.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.