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Old 10-17-2012, 03:50 PM
nurseypoo1 nurseypoo1 is offline
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U are so spot on. I have completely relearned how to argue. I make more "i feel......becuase of...." then i EVER have. I used to say "u made me....". Blame is useless. And counterproductive. I will not even think of bringing up the "me and her" thing until i am comfortable with all the othef stuff first. But i have always planned to. Her and i do quite a lot together as friends. I am very honest and open with how i feel or wut i think to both of them. They r wonderful listeners. She has admitted she dont know how i do it. She lived with us for a few months and has seen the worst side of my jealousy and accusations. Lol. Oops. My marriage is DEFINITELY better and stronger because of this whole thing.
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