Where I'm utterly inexperienced in poly relationships, the closet is familiar enough. It sucks some serious cajones when you feel a certain way and just want to have that accepted but can't. I chose that if I was coming out, I was doing it right and accepting myself first.
Mothballs aren't my favorite, but I'm used to them lol
In the comfort of ones own home, one should think and feel how THEY choose, and not have the choice taken.
There's no place I can be, since I've found serenity.